well I hope i went through hell for some reaons, took me damn ages to find the bug in retro (was a while back now)
Full situation=The game would get the Re-Connection error usually around 3 to 5 mins into gameplay, but no longer and happened 100% of the time
it seemed to just overload the game in a way in which it wasnt designed to take, when looking at the SYNC.txt there where pages of pages of the cellanim i had added
shame cause it worked perfectly on single player/skirmish and looking brilliant but life goes on, i had to cut it
P.S. I have to give credit to DeeZire who pointed me in the right direction of how to get it working in TS, just such a shame it has such a large bug related to it
