well, it looks like u were right Sleipnir, thats what i was missing out.......i extracted all the single player missions from maps.big, opened each one up with C&C G Worldbuilder, edited the missions with the Edit Player List drop down option one by one (took a while lol) and, god damnit, it worked!!! again, thanks sleipnir for taking the time to point this n00b in the right direction, hehe
thanks m8